The words “gratitude” and “grace” share a common origin: the Latin word gratus, meaning “pleasing” or “thankful.”
In the monthly copy of the AHP newsletter (Association for Humanistic Psychology) that I receive, a recent article defined gratitude as “orientation towards noticing and appreciating the positive in the world.”
I won’t argue with that, but I’d like to add a qualifier. I believe that definition describes passive gratitude. If, however, that spark ignites a fire that inspires personal change, that passivity transforms into active gratitude.
It is my perspective that gratitude in action—as a regular practice—has a wide brushstroke of positive effects:
Inward—through appreciation we find contentment.
Outward—it inspires generosity—be it our time, skills, or money—and gifts us with opportunities to serve.
Environmentally—it’s a catalyst for healing our planet through the respect of nature.
For thousands of years gratitude has crossed religious and cultural boundaries not only as a social virtue, but as a theological virtue, but it’s a relatively new subject in the field of scientific research.
The University of California Davis psychology professor Robert Emmons’ research indicates that “Grateful people take better care of themselves and engage in more protective health behaviors like regular exercise, a healthy diet, (and) regular physical examinations.” His research also revealed that grateful people tend to be more optimistic, a characteristic that literally boosts the immune system—a clear physical benefit.
Dr. Alex Wood, a postgraduate researcher in the Department of Psychology, University of Warwick says, “…gratitude is an integral part of well-being;”—a distinct benefit to our mental and emotional faculties.
Gratitude helps to open the heart, the seat of compassion. It helps us to see the good in our experience, regardless. It enhances trust and helps us to forgive—an unarguable benefit to our spiritual aspect.
Better than a multi-vitamin, gratitude is plain good for us!
How do you weave gratitude into your life tapestry?
How do you weave gratitude into your life tapestry?
We must be reading the same books, because I just got done yesterday reading about how to make and record a gratitude book.
Funny I had just finished this and I felt like my dishwasher was breaking, not going through it’s full cycle. So, I strated a load and went out to do some errands, thinking this gives it plenty of time to complete its cycle, if its not done by the time I get back home (stuck on wash after 2 hours of being gone) then I know for sure its broke.
Well, it was done and working on drying. Right there in the kitchen it came to me, GRATITUDE!!! so I said I’m grateful that my dishwasher is working and I dont have to spend money to have it fixed.
A ahaaa moment in motion.
Now I feel confident to start my gratitude journal.
Jean – I’m so glad GRATEFUL that you stopped by to share your story – THANK YOU!
I am grateful for the ability to blog — which was just yesterday threatened by some legal paperwork I received in the mail. Seems part of my blogging — which deals with the soap opera that is my life — is upsetting certain people, who are now attempting to silence my voice.
So for now, I will continue to enjoy this medium, and fight these people with everything in me.
Thanks for the reminder. We all should be grateful for many things in our life that we take for granted!
Mikalee – I’m glad you stopped by “Speaking from the Heart.” I’m glad that you enjoy the blogging venue.
Great post! I find that when I actively express gratitude, I immediately find more in my life to be grateful for. In a sense, gratefulness creates more gratefulness.
Teri – I love what you said: “Gratefulness creates more gratefulness.” Thank you for stopping by today.
This post was great! Thanks so much for sharing.
David – I’m GRATEFUL that you stopped by today and enjoyed the post. Thank you for letting me know.
Yay! Love your post! How do I weave gratitude into my life? Well, I do a sort of daily cross training for my soul. Fifteen minutes of free form writing followed by 15 minutes of gratitude journaling and 15 minutes of affirmations…. My gratitude averages 4 pages a day and I agree whole heartedly, it is a catalyst for much positivity and self love that begins within which I happily share with the world via donations, smiles, giggles and all out JOY for my existence. 🙂 Often times, I have gratitude fests in my head, like right now I am thinking, “WOW! The computer is a pretty amazing invention and I am so grateful for it’s amazing existence which provides me the ability one I’ve never even about something I LOVE… who I have never met which sparks connection in the most unique way.” 🙂 Often times I give thanks for my car and healthy foods and all the love in my life…. How do you weave gratitude into your life?
Annyhoo, thanks for your thoughts and I hope you have the most AMAZING day!
Currie Rose – I love what you shared about the daily cross training for your soul – that’s fantastic! Thank you for stopping by “Speaking from the Heart” – I hope you’ll come back again.
Thank you Holessence for your lovely blog. Awesome.
I also do much of what Currie Rose says above. Not exactly, but very similar.
And even when things could really be better…financially anyway, I thank God for all the blessings I do have. I feel very rich. I write it in my journal, about it in my blogs or poetry, I tell God how grateful I am, and I tell others.
The best gift(s) I am grateful for is God’s presence in my life; and the people who have been in my life, who are now, and those to come.
Ann – Please feel free to call me Laurie. It sounds like you have Inner Wealth and that’s priceless 🙂
I wake up grateful, regardless. I’m grateful for all of the beautiful miracles surrounding me, and that I can recognize them, regardless of any other thing going on in my life.
Attitude of gratitude!
Anaturalfire – “And that I can recognize them, regardless.” That’s fantastic! Thank you for stopping by today.
Anaturalfire – “And that I can recognize them, regardless.” That’s fantastic!
Anaturalfire – “And that I can recognize them, regardless.” You hit the nail on the head!
Anaturalfire – When you said, “…I can recognize them, regardless…” you hit the nail on the head!
I have long felt that gratitude is one of the most powerful skills we have at our disposal for creating our own inner peace and happiness. Being grateful for the small things and the big things and sharing that thankfullness is so uplifting.
Thank you for sharing your finding and thoughts on this. Intertesting to see science finally catching on to the benefits of gratefulness.
Bonnie – I agree that gratitude is a skill, and it can be honed with use. Thank you!
I weave gratitude into my tapestry by sometimes dropping by my daughter’s job, walking in and giving her a wordless peck on the cheek, by kneeling beside my bed, folding my hands and communing with the Almighty, by experiencing the weather, whether it be rain, snow, sun, or hail, and saying “Thank you!”
Whenquiet – Beautiful examples. Thank you for sharing them here.
Gratitude, thank you with a hug, with tears, con abrazos fuertes y mil besos! How many more variations of “thank you” have we expressed or yet to do as this overwhelming feeling overtakes us?
Thank you for defining or classifying each to better understand them. A blog just for gratitude–we needed this.
The image you used is a constant one that unfolds on my bus rides to downtown Vancouver of which I wrote this haiku on thanksgiving that I would like to share with you:
not two but hundreds
of upraised pine branches–
thanks still wanting
Gimperial – The image is one my husband took of me in the spring. It seemed oh-so-appropriate to use it for this post. Thank you for stopping by.
Beautiful blog. In dealing with personal loss a new sense of gratitude has sparked in my life. Yet another example to make me realize how fragile our lives are. I have set out to make the most of mine while I still have it. I have started practicing yoga again, returned to things lost, and now make time for myself and my creative efforts. I am thankful to be alive. Hm.. that’s appropriate, considering today is my birthday. 🙂
Goingforthebronze – Happy Birthday! I’m glad you stopped by today. I find Yoga and Tai Chi to be positive, uplifting, constructive, and healing.
Our family prays most dinner times and we have to say some sort of thanks. When the kids cannot think of anything they go with having a house and food. Congrats on being freshly pressed.
Notesfromrumbleycottage – What a wonderful model for your children to see and participate in. Thank you for letting me know I’d been “freshly pressed.” I was wondering why I had an unusually large number of comments to moderate.
What a great idea for a blog!! Blog on!! 🙂
Smitty – Thank you!
I try and verbalize my gratitude hrough my music.
Great post and congrats on being Freshly Pressed!
Ava – Ah music, food for the soul. A wonderful way to express gratitude! Thank you for stopping by (I just discovered I’ve been “freshly pressed.”).
I am feeling gratitude that after a full day of appts yesterday, we are at home today with no appts. We slept in, in fact mom is just getting up….I try to see grace and gratitude every day….trying to be thankful for the little thinks and also big, especially the grace to just BE….
Kim – I know that your mother is ever-so-GRATEFUL for everything you’re doing and just BEing YOU.
LOVE the picture “Laurie!!
Thank you Kim. Len took the photograph of me early in the spring for the “letting go” post that I dad.
every day, no matter how crappy, there is something worth being thankful for…even if it isnt a girlfriend.
Dearexgirlfriend – Yes, I agree that there’s always something to be grateful for.
I think when we are able to stop complaining about the negative points of our lives, we can finally let go of of worry and embrace gratitude with open arms. What a wonderful challenge: attempt to find and acknowledge all of the positive moments in your day. Don’t worry about the things that give you difficulty or fear…turn to the things that bring joy and value to your life, and let the rest fall away. Easier said than done, but a great thought. Congrats on being FP’d!
Auntbethany – I appreciate what you said: “…attempt to find and acknowledge all of the positive moments in your day.” yes, Yes, YES!
“Whatever you are not changing, you are choosing.”
I dig that so very much.
Ieho1 – I’m glad you like it. It’s what surfaced for me on my 50th birthday 3 years ago. Thank you for stopping by.
I may or may not have remixed it and used it as my Facebook status. 🙂
I rejoiced with a solid: “Yeay!” and quickly added a “oh snap!” after I looked deeper into other accounts of my life where results are far from favorable.
A perfect blend of joy and sting all in one.
We sure have a lot to be thankful for in life. Glad you made freshly pressed!
The Simple Life of a Country Man’s Wife – We most certainly do! Thank you so much for stopping by today.
Each day, I feel grateful that I’m alive. To confess, that’s all I’m grateful for. To be alive, and just to be living.
Winxrocker – Life is precious, indeed.
I am a firm believer that an attitude of gratitude can change the world. I know it and have experienced that a little gratitude can work miracles! I try to remember to stop in my tracks when something negative comes out of my mouth and say something positive to counteract it. I am also trying to foster it in my children. You attract what you put out there. I had committed myself to being more grateful this month and than your blog comes across my path. Truth! Thank you!
mmgoodsongs – To stop in one’s tracks the moment they realize that something negative has been said and then counteracting it with something positive is a terrific model for your children. I admire what you’re doing. Thank you for stopping by today.
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Laurie… errhummm…note to self: sedately remember… I live a grateful life full of simple abundance that becomes part of the very act of my ordinary… like making oatmeal this morning, seeing the leave blow off the tree outside my studio window and so on.
I am grateful for you and your beautiful posts “freshly pressed” and all. Big grin. Oh I can’t STAND IT! Hats off to you Laurie. Yippee! Congratulations! Super [[[hugs]]]. People are so lucky that you made “the press”. Because finding you is like have a gem show up in your pocket on every even day…
so much for sedate 🙂
Terrill – We’re doing the Snoopy Happy Dance together — whoohoo! I so appreciate the way Creative Potager feeds my soul, and I’m ever-so-grateful that I’m in your sphere of influence.
We are totally aligned on this one!!!
So many different aspects to gratitude.
So often in life we see what we look for.
A couple of major aspects even to that.
We are bombarded with so much more information than our conscious awareness can process that it must be filtered down to what the conscious can deal with. A part of our brain called the RAS (Reticular Activating System) normally does that for us, and it is very sensitive to context.
At another level completely, it is possible to be grateful for absolutely anything. That we are alive, and able to experience it, however “painful” it may feel at some level, is sufficient cause to be grateful.
One of the things that affected me profoundly from my school days was reading about what people thought was the greatest technological progress (this was in the early 60s). One very old lady said “running water”. Not having to walk 2 miles to the river every day, then walk the two miles back carrying two heavy pails of water, and the wet washing, made the biggest difference in her life.
Reading that, I really got how profoundly different and more privileged our lives are than most of those who went before us. And yes the romans had water, reticulation, and they used lead pipes (from where we get the term plumbers, from the roman term for lead – plumbous), which caused poisoning in many people.
We are still learning, about levels of toxicity of various substances that we use, both from their actual use and from their manufacture, and we are, on the whole, getting more aware, and more friendly to the environment; and we have a lot still to do.
So yes – gratitude fr the extraordinary privilege it is to be alive at this time, to have had the experiences I have had, to be who I am, and to have the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of others.
In every mouthful of food, every breath of air, every step taken, every sound heard, every hug, every pat of the dogs.
Gratitude is one of the greatest antidotes to stress, and in that simple way, one of the most healthful things we can engage in.
Ted – I didn’t know about the Roman plumbing, that was cool – thank you. You’re so right that gratitude is one of the greatest antidotes to stress and that it’s SIMPLE. Not only is it one of the most healthful things we can do, it’s one of the most heartfelt things we can do.
That aside … did Jewelia arrive safely in Orlando yet? She’s been on my heart and mind.
Apologies for that oversight – yes – she is safe in Orlando, with her friend Kaci, under the care of Kaci’s mom Holly.
Ted – I’m sooooooooo very glad to hear this. I hope Jewelia’s trip home is much less eventful!
I love the notion of “active gratitide.” Blogging about my life in Haiti, I wrote even today about my struggle to change, especially in light of the poverty I see all around me in Port-au-Prince.” I’m asking lots of questions, not always getting answers that satisfy. I just can’t figure out how to actually “be the change [I] I want to see in the world” that Ghandi talks about. Here my less than flattering, I’m-an-American-I-deserve-running-water, entitlement issues stand out in stark and ugly relief against the backgrop of Haitian hope-in-the-midst-of-suffering.
Thanks for the insights!
Kathryn – I’m so glad you stopped by “Speaking from the Heart” today. When you can’t figure out how to actually “be the change you want to see in the world, ” simply BE love.
So true,it so fills our being and almost gently steers us to the path of well-being and doing right every day.
Roamer – Your words are well worth repeating, “Gratitude fills our being and almost gently steers us to the path of well-being and doing right every day.” Thank you for stopping by and leaving those words of wisdom.
I loved this post, today…
G is for feeling Grateful your post was chosen this day for Freshly Pressed…and that I happened along to find it.
Not believing in coincidences, I will continue to look with eyes wide open for reasons to be blown away by the good in this world.
Planejaner – I don’t believe in coincidences either 🙂 I’m so glad you found “Speaking from the Heart” and I hope you’ll come back. I love what you said, “I will continue to look with eyes wide open for reasons to be blown away by the good in this world.”
I just read your fantastic post here. It seems like we share the attitude that “Gratitude is good for you.” Grateful Nation is an online community that gives grateful people like you the opportunity & resources to connect, give back, and be thankful. Follow GN or jump into the unending cycle of gratitude here at Grateful Nation Thank you, Vanessa
Vanessa – I’m GRATEFUL that you stopped by and provided this wonderful link. THANK YOU!
A good write up !! Encouraging piece !!
Indowaves – I’m GRATEFUL you stopped by and left a comment, thank you.
Am I grateful? Yes, of course. However, I have a ‘pride’ complex (I’m pretty sure there’s a proper word for it); expressions of gratitude are akin to being indebted to someone. My pride (however wrongly), does not let me do this. I find it hard to say ‘thank you’, no matter how much I mean it.
I’m not denying it’s good for you; I’m just pointing out how it’s actually quite difficult for some people (this just made me seem like some sort of insensitive, ungrateful git; I’m not, I just have something ‘wrong’ with me.)
Good post, nonetheless! 😀 (it’s convinced me to try get over my ego [no matter how much it coaxes me against it] and be more verbally grateful.
Yusura – I’m glad this post has convinced you to try, regardless of how you feel. That’s excellent! THANK YOU for stopping by “Speaking from the Heart” today and leaving a comment. I appreciate you.
A very inspiring post. I could learn a few things from your words. I am glad I happened upon your blog 🙂
Darlene – Please make yourself at home and look around. In this particular series I’ve posted A-G. I’ve still got to post H-Z. I post on the even-numbered days of every month. I also invite you to look through the archived posts. I’m glad you found “Speaking from the Heart” and GRATEFUL that you left a comment.
I’m so glad I stumbled on this article! BTW, in case you didn’t know it, this was a featured article on the main page of WordPress.com!
The heart and soul of my blog is to develop an attitude of gratitude. When I am in that spirit, I find countless blessings in my everyday life!
Thank you for this post. It confirms my own belief that being a grateful person is good for my overall health and well being.
Ferd – With all of the comments I did finally figure out that I had been “Freshly Pressed” (featured on the WordPress main page). Needless to say, I’m tickled pink 🙂 One good visit deserves another. Count on the fact that I’ll be over to check out your blog on gratitude 🙂
Laurie, I love your post on Gratitude. I write in my Gratitude journal every night before I go to bed.
I am now following your blog and would love to interact more. I am in the process of being certified as a life coach and would love to send my contacts to your site.
Make it a great day!
🙂 Karin Conway
Karin – I’m so glad you stopped by today. Please feel free to send me an email directly at Laurie@HolEssence.com.
Laurie, I am DANCING around this hotel room in GRATITUDE that you got featured on FRESHLY PRESSED! In fact, I have tears of JOY! So delighted…what a gift in this day. WaHOOOOOOO!!!
Kathy – As someone who has been Freshly Pressed more than once, I know you know the exhileration 🙂
Thank you for sharing. It’s good to know this virtue can have positive physical effects as well as mental benefits. I’m glad for the reminder to be grateful.
My Camera, My Friend – I’m GRATEFUL that you stopped by “Speaking from the Heart” today. I think that GRATITUDE is quite possibly the “silver bullet” — body, mind, and spirit.
My Word! Have you become syndicated? What does Freshly Pressed mean? Are all your wrinkles gone? If so, I want to be pressed too. I am grateful that you let us share in this wonderful class of yours, reminding us to look a wee bit closer, day by day, through every letter in the Alphabet. I am also very grateful to be here in the flesh, to have the ability to speak to the Master of the Universe several times a day and give Thanks. Thanks for my eyes, my breath, my truck, the roof over my head, and my bed at night. Thanks for all the people who write books and keep my brain exercised. Oh, there’s a world of things to be grateful for, if we only took the time!
Oh, and I am grateful that I got the contact from Ogden Publications in the mail today…..Yee Haw!
Sandi – “Freshly Pressed” means that my blog was selected along with 11 others (a dozen) to be on the front page of http://www.WordPress.com. I had no idea that it happened until I had an in-box full of comments that needed to be moderated. One person said, “Congratulations on being FP’d” – I still didn’t understand. But when another person said, “Congratulations on being Freshly Pressed” I whipped over to the home page and sure enough, there was the back of me, arms reaching to the sky. Needless to say, I’m tickled pink!
“Oh, there’s a world of things to be grateful for, if only we took the time!” Amen, siSTAR!
I think “G” should stand for gravitate in this case, Laurie. I had the same question Sandi did: have you gone syndicate? 67 comments? Hello? Put a little gratitude out there and suddenly people flocking gravitate to your blog. Gosh, but it is so easy to play the “woe is me” game, and gratitude is the cure. If we fill our lives with gratitude, there is no room for woe.
Barbara – Nope, I haven’t gone syndicate :). I just replied to Sandi and explained that I’ve been “Freshly Pressed” (you’ll see a full explanation there). I love what you said, “If we fill our lives with gratitude, there is no room for woe.”
Carole – Thank you! I hope you’ll stop back in again.
This is fantastic – thank you for sharing this with us.
Awakening Tempest – I’m glad you enjoyed the post on Gratitude. I hope you’ll come back and visit again.
Laurie, congratulations for making the freshly pressed page. Great article!
I can definitely attest to the benefits of active daily gratitude since I began my 100 day gratitude challenge. There are too many benefits to list them all here, but just as your article says, my heart has opened more and I feel wonderful regardless of my circumstances. I feel more peace and joy.
It is definitely a worthwhile practice that I highly recommend for the improvement of quality of life.
Marianne – Congratulations on your 100 day GRATITUDE challenge! Way to go! I’m so glad you stopped by today, thank you.
This is spectacular news! Laurie Buchanan is a real internet sweetheart, and fully deserving of this Glowing accolade. Her blogsite is a veritable display of Gratitude for her readers who are blessed with her Generous doses of sound advice, concern, and real caring. Few make themselves as available, and fewer still inform their subjects with such a winning chemistry of compassion and spirit. I have been recipient to Laurie’s special gifts, and I am so much richer for it.
Freshly pressed? You bet. The attendance here is proof parcel!
[Twisting toe in ground, blushing profusely] Oh Sam – thank you!
Hai Laurie,, I’m practicing being grateful by imagining my heart’s smiling. Keep maintaining positive energy and wow, when I’m grateful, I feel more content,- feel the harmony within.. Anyway, nice picture.. Great article.. 😀
Stellycious Stella – I’m sure glad you stopped by Speaking from the Heart. It’s sounds like you’ve got a good handle on GRATITUDE. You mentioned the photograph — my husband took that of me in early spring this year and it seemed appropriate to support the topic of GRATITUDE.
I have to admit that I would argue that gratitude can and should be expressed for both the things in life which we view as positive and those which we view as negative. If this is not the case then our gratitude, and all that goes with it, is limited by the number of positive factors in our lives. Also it is often that which we initially view as negative, difficult, and painful, which leads to the most personal growth.
Noothergods – Like you said, it’s both the positive and seemingly negative things (difficult, painful) that leads to the most personal growth. I choose to be GRATEFUL for everything. Thank you for your comment.
Yes, you’re absolutely right!
I think I’m going to start making a ‘gratitude list’ every morning. In this economy, more people could benefit from being more thankful.
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Shanna – I’m glad you stopped by Speaking from the Heart. Thank you for the link.
I just stumbled accross this blog. I loved the topic of gratitude. I just wrote one on giving. And I believe that giving comes from gratitude. The relationship to the word “grace” struck me as well. I believe that is why we should serve God: because I am grateful to him. We don’t serve God to earn our way into heaven. And we should serve our fellow man because that is the best way to serve God, and each other. I am glad I stumbled on this blog (-:
Jamie – I, too, am glad you “stumbled” onto this blog (actually, I don’t believe in coincidence; I believe that everything happens for a reason). I appreciate the perspective you shared. Thank you for leaving a comment. I hope you’ll come back.
i like your blog entry. =)
Kevin – I appreciate that you came. I hope you’ll pop in again another time.
Congratulations on being featured on Freshly Pressed!
Loved your post. As a therapist I am always encouraging my clients to incorporate gratitude into their life and healing. I appreciate your comment about “active gratitude” and will be using it with clients in the coming days. Thank you.
I’m blessed by your words.. Gratitude is more than multi-vitamin.. eat it daily, for healthy mind n soul..
Uniquecha – I’m glad you enjoyed the post. I hope you’ll come back for the rest of the “Alphabetically Speaking” series.
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I’ve been in some “challenging” situations in my life. Yet, I was taught by my mother (a very strong and wise woman, full of faith and gratitude) to always be thankful for what you have. So, I have learned to be grateful for any little tidbit of goodness that comes into my life. I have learned to sometimes say to myself, “Things could be so much worse.” And I have learned that even blessings come in the disguise of seemingly bad or hard times. Joy can be found in the littlest things and the most quiet moments, if you are willing to see this. And when you do appreciate, or are “grateful” for the small things, it makes the bigger moments all that much better!
Rtcrita – It sounds like you have an amazing mother. You really hit the nail on the head when you said, “I you are willing to see.” That’s vital. Thank you for visiting Speaking from the Heart. I hope you’ll come back.
Wow, this is so in-line with my most recent thoughts (and blog post incidentally). Thank you for helping me re-enforce what I have just began to realise is true:- if I don’t change soomething, I’m choosing it.
Mybusinessaddiction – I’m so glad you stopped by and left a comment. I hope you’ll come back again.
Ma’am, you’re giving me a great inspiration!. I Like this. And I try to do it. I hope you can give spirit and more inspiration to all of people in the world.
Thank you very much… 🙂
Mbincung – I’m glad that you enjoyed the post on GRATITUDE. Thank you for visiting Speaking from the Heart.
AAHH, did you feel the immunity boost from just reading these posts on gratitude? What a blessing. I am a big fan of Dr. Emoto’s research on the positive effects of love and gratitude on water. More specifically the water in our bodies. I practice active gratitude on a daily basis by focusing my intention to be mindfully grateful for EVERYTHING. I am especially grateful to have been traveling for over 30 years to an island where I am embraced with attitudes of gratitude. Some people still walk to get their water, and many people wait each week for a boat to arrive with living essentials, yet examples of gratitude are abundant from those with an island perspective of priorities. Health and wellness, waking each day and no expectations.
Lisa – Like you, I’m a huge fan of Dr. Emoto and fully appreciate the research he’s done on the positive effects of water. I learned a lot more about water at a class I attended in Chicago Monday evening. I like what you’ve shared here about island life (which has prompted a different idea. I’ll send you a separate email this afternoon when a window of opportunity presents itself). Thank you for stopping by today. I so appreciate YOU!
How amazing to stumble across your beautiful blog and your words are just pure blissful.
I personally live in gratitude in every moment.and have a gratitude journal that just puts everything into great perspective.
Love your writing!!
Blogging is amazing…you can meet people who you instantly feel connected to…thank you!
Lots of love,
Zeenat – I’m so glad that you found “Speaking from the Heart.” and that you like what you found. I do hope that you’ll come back. You’re right – a gratitude journal is a great way to keep things in perspective.
Inspiring! At a low point in my life some years ago, I began a gratitude journal. I did so, believing that I had nothing to be grateful for. I remember my first entry. It said, “I am funny.” That was the non-negotiable of my self-worth. As the days wore on, knowing I would “have to” write something in the journal that evening, I began to see the world in a new way. At first it was almost artificial (“I have to write something, so I’ll write this.”)After awhile, I really did see everything from a point of gratitude. A journal was no longer enough to contain my abundance of gratitude.
Life in the boomerland – Thank you for sharing your story here, that’s great! I’m glad you stopped in and I hope you’ll return again, soon. I post on the even-numbered days of the month.
Awesome article! The quote about changing or choosing is powerful. Thank you for sharing!
Adult Autism – I’m glad you found “Speaking from the Heart.” Thank you for stopping by and sharing a comment.
nice words there. 🙂 its surprising how obvious the answers of our problems are but it gets somewhat strange in the convolutions of life and we require external influences to remind us of our potential to get through. whats next? H for Humor? 😉 😀
Krazzyking – The problem with those external influences is that they fluctuate day-by-day; they’re not reliable. When we look inward — to the real deal — we’re spot on! As for “H” — you’ll have to tune in tomorrow 🙂
So nice! Exactly how I needed to begin my day today. Thank you!! 😉
Blondecop – I’m glad you started your day here at Speaking from the Heart. I hope you’ll come back again.
That’s the key alright ‘have no expectations’. It’s taken me about ten years to figure this out for myself, duh! If only someone had taken me aside for just one moment and said, “…today’s expectations can often become tomorrow’s resentments”. There simple!
Contactless – I appreciate the quote you left here, that’s terrific! Thank you for stopping by.
YAY LAURIE!!!! Congrats – You so totally deserve this!!!! I am grateful for you in my life.
Murphy has been getting me a lot lately. So I have to stick my tongue out at him and be grateful for the things to do go right in my life. Like having some good family and friends – like you!
Beth – Right back atcha, boomerang style — I’m glad you’re in my life too!
Even though it is easy to get angry or upset about things that happen in everyday life, I try to push them away by being grateful everyday for being healthy and lucky for being who I am. I am grateful for your post!
Littleexplorer – “…and being lucky for who I am.” That’s fantastic! I’m glad you stopped by and left a comment, thank you.
Great Post. Pleasant & heartwarming.
Fieldserviceguy – Thank you for your visit. I appreciate your comment.
Holy moly, Miss Laurie! School’s gotten a bit crowded, hey? Learning is so much better when shared 🙂 Horray – ‘Freshly Pressed’ has never looked so good!
I try to never take anything for granted and to be thankful for the simple joys of life – a walk in the woods with the pack, a beautimous sunrise, the joy of my granddaughter’s smile, the amazing earth around me. I’ve been meaning to keep a gratitude journal but am always conscious of giving thanx.
Cindy Lou – A face I recognize! I’m GRATEFUL you’re here. I love your word, “beautimous” – that’s terrific! Thank you for stopping by today. I appreciate YOU.
You are an amazing woman!! You rock and are my superstar!
Terri – thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU!
read it make me understand ’bout our relation with other
thanks for u’re share….love to read this blog.
Prasetyalynn – Thank you so much for stopping by, I’m glad that you enjoyed the post, and hope you’ll visit again.
Laurie, many congratulations! Thought I would squeeze in for a moment to say how grateful I am for all that you share here….your generosity of spirit, your wisdom and yourself.
Hello Colleen! Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment, I sure do appreciate it 🙂
A wholly extraordinary thread! One of the most profound I’ve ever seen anywhere.
Sam – Like you, I am overwhelmed with the outpouring here. Thank you for swinging back by.
Gratefulness is measured by the gift. He who is most grateful is he who has received forgiveness of sins from Christ Jesus.
By His Grace.
Nice post. Gratitude, a fast fading word- somehow it makes life worth living in spite of the successive downhills. Thank you for the refreshing read.
The little thread of thoughts – I’m glad you visited Speaking from the Heart. I hope you’ll visit again soon.
Nice read! I try to look at situations with a positive attitude. By doing so, I am able to appreciate the good aspects of it. For example, I have to spend at least another hour every day to commute to and from work. I reason that by being in traffic I am: 1) avoiding a speeding ticket, and 2) saving on gas. By looking at the positive in this, I avoid feeling frustrated or angry (i.e. road rage!) Congrats on Freshly Pressed, I am grateful for your thoughtful insight! LB
Ibwong – What a refreshing outlook you have. I love the way you have a glass that half FULL instead of half EMPTY. Thank you for stopping by Speaking from the Heart. I hope you’ll come back again soon.
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